Survey results of a recently released online poll shows that of 2100 Canadians, 2035 (94%) are most concerned about money when it comes to the divorce process. Only a surprising three per cent of respondents said children were their main concern, while 1.3 per cent and 1.2 per cent said emotional impact and legal concerns were what they were worried about, respectively. The survey data was compiled by an Ontario divorce strategy website.
Another end-of-August survey by the Association of Divorce Financial Planners that polled divorce professionals across Canada and the United States determined that the most common reasons for divorce is slowly drifting apart and the end of the child rearing process rather than more emotionally-straining issues like infidelity.
Both of these new surveys can shed light on alternative dispute resolution, a quickly growing method of dealing with divorce issues in a timely and less expensive manner than going to court. One popular method of alternative dispute resolution is collaborative law.
Collaborative law does not involve litigation and instead involves the spouses and their respective lawyers cooperating and negotiating to come to a resolution that benefits and is acceptable to both spouses.
”How long?” and “how much?” are two questions that are often at the forefront of any divorce-oriented thought process, particularly when separating spouses attempt to resolve such issues as property division, child custody, and support. While the financial cost of finalizing a divorce depends on a great number of variables, the emotional costs during a hotly contested dispute can be great, taking its toll on both the parents and the children.
Mediation and collaborative law are two methods of finalizing a divorce without litigation. Mediation involves using a mediator, usually someone with a background in social work, to act as a negotiator between the opposing spouses in order to resolve the outstanding issues. The parties’ respective lawyers are involved in the mediation process and can opt to amend a mediator’s recommendations or the parties’ themselves can make changes to a recommendation.
In contrast, collaborative law involves the separating spouses and their respective lawyers, who are all active participants in the negotiation of the matrimonial issues. Should any of the issues related to the divorce fail to become finalized, the collaborative lawyers are prohibited from representing the spouses in court. Collaborative law is less expensive and time-consuming than litigation.
According to a number of Ontario lawyers and professional mediators, an increasing number Ontario residents are taking their family law cases to alternative dispute resolution, including mediation and collaborative law. Alternative dispute resolution is a cost-effective alternative to the cost of litigating a family law matter in court, which is no longer within means for most people.
Alternative dispute resolution also provides a quicker resolution to a family law matter than litigation and provides parties with an opportunity to be heard and the ability to control negotiations. Parties are able to come to agreements, as opposed to having a resolution forced upon at least one party by a judge.
In mediation, a third party with special training, such as a background in social work, will assist both parties in making decisions. Lawyers are usually retained by the parties for advice in these cases, while in arbitration an arbitrator will meet with the parties’ respective lawyers. In collaborative law, parties’ lawyers will work to finalize an agreement that is acceptable for both parties, although if issues cannot be resolved the lawyers cannot be retained for any future court proceedings.
In 1999, the Ontario Mandatory Mediation Program was introduced in Toronto, Ottawa and Windsor. Mediation is an option that must now be considered in civil disputes at those locations. Mandatory mediation was not extended to family law cases because in some instances, such as domestic violence cases, mediation may not be a possibility.
In addition to its cost-effectiveness, alternative dispute resolution also removes children of separated parents from any exposure to the court process, and it enables adults, who were once children of their parents’ long, drawn out divorces, to go through their own family law dispute without lengthy litigation.
Commencing March 1, 2010, the McGuinty government will be implementing major reforms to a variety of Family Law matters in Ontario. The reforms have been introduced with the objective of improving the public’s access to justice in family courts.
The following are some highlights of the changes that will take effect under the new legislation:
Full details of the upcoming reforms are still to be released by the government.
Check back to our blog for further details once the family law changes come into effect on March 1, 2010.
For further information on family law and divorce contact us at info@divorcesupport.ca or call us at 416 222 4555
When parents separate the continued care and welfare of the children become major issues. Unless all parenting rights and responsibilities for the children are agreed upon between the parents to be equally shared, typically one parent will keep the majority of the day-to-day responsibilities, decision-making rights, and the physical care of the children (“custody”). The other parent will have the right to visit with the children and the right to be kept informed about the children’s health, education, and welfare (“access”).
When parents who separate cannot agree on the parenting arrangements for the children, they can go to a court have a judge make the decision. Under the Divorce Act and the Children’s Law Reform Act, a judge must decide “the best interests of the child” when making an order for custody and access. The judge must consider a number of factors including: the emotional ties between the child and each parent, proposed plans for the child, stability of the home environment, each parent’s capabilities and willingness to parent, and, depending on the age and maturity of the child, the child’s wishes.
Once the judge has determined that it is in the best interests of the child that an access order should be made, the judge must then focus on the terms of access, including: overnight and weekend periods of stay, holiday schedules, and vacation. The terms of access can be flexible (for example, “liberal and generous”) or structured (for example, “alternate weekends”), depending on the facts of the specific case.
Access is normally unsupervised, however, where there are genuine and well-founded concerns about the safety of the children and/or for the custodial parent, the court can require visits or exchanges with the children to be “supervised”. Supervised access is a restrictive form of access where the visits are monitored by the custodial parent, a third-party, or a Supervised Access Program, to ensure the safety of all participants.
Supervised access is typically not a permanent provision ordered by the court, instead it usually operates as temporary measure to resolve any difficulties or concerns with access.
When considering custody and access issues, it is important to contact a Family Lawyer who can advise you as to your rights and that of the best interests of your children. Call Niren and Associates at 416 222 4555 or email us at info@divorcesupport.ca.
The process of ending an established marriage can drain family finances relative to the animosity between spouses and the marriage rights at stake. Disagreements over property and child custody inevitably require many trips to the lawyers and extended court appearances. The disruption in the lives of family members involves emotional fallout as it is without adding the frustration and anger over loss of money into the equation.